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Besski, remember we Skyped last night? Well today I did everything you said. And it was the first time I heard her saying “I miss you. I love you so much. Come to visit me now!” I WAS SHOCKED. This were the words I died to hear for so long. You gave me my girl back. I just love you man! I’m now telling my friends about you!

Jack, Canada, Student

Hi Besski, I have bought your magnificent Long Distance Loyalty course, and I’m reading it right now. It’s pure gold! Thank you for sharing your experience with us!

Dave, Spain

I was trying to find some advice online and found your blog. I’m a female, but I found the information you have posted very interesting and helpful even for us women!

Eliza, United States

I really enjoy what your sharing with us guys who are in a long distance relationship. What you have to say is the best out there right now on long distance relationships.

Simon, Germany

I want to thank you for your site, as it has helped me a lot so far on managing my long distance relationship.

Bob, United States

I swear, your site has saved my sanity and given this relationship life!

Ian, Belgium

My name is Lisa and your page is so accurate, at least for how I feel my man should treat me :) You understand women! If my boyfriend had 10% of the love and ambition to make this work that you show for your relationship, it would be good. Thanks for listening!

Lisa, United States, Accountant

OMG! This is the best resource for man in a long distance relationship there has ever existed after the invention of the internet! And I am not exaggerating! [Long Distance Loyalty Course]

Andrew, Denmark

Every men who is in a LDR should read your 3 Deadly Mistakes book. Full of advices to make our daily relationship easier!

Chiba, South Africa, Student

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  1. Angiel says:

    It’s crazy, I would have never taught that you could actually learn how to make a long distance relationship work… But when I found your site my thoughts have changed. If I had to share with you and others one lesson that I learned from you is that we have to take responsibility for our love lives and as you say it “upgrade & educate” ourselves. So I learned that to have a successful relationship I need to constantly grow as a person, and more importantly I need to educate myself about love and relationships…because there is so much useful information out there… it’s unbelievable!

    • Angiel…you’ve hit the nail on the head, man! I am so excited that this is the lesson that you took from this community, because once you realize that it’s all about becoming a better man, and learning from other people out there who spend years and years figuring out ways to deal with the same problems that you have… that’s when love and relationships become so much easier. Thanks for sharing mate! :)

  2. Roberto says:

    Man the number one lesson I learned from you was to avoid neediness, and give my girlfriend enough space and time to live her life. I used to be very insecure and worried that if I wouldn’t talk to her for a few hours she would fall out of love with me, so I would call her, text her and give her A LOT of attention… until one day when she told me that I was suffocating her.

    And that’s when I searched online for long distance relationship advice and found your site… and my mind was blown away by how much useful information you’re giving here. Long story short, now I always keep in mind your Reciprocity Rule from your ebook, which helps me avoid neediness very well. I am very thankful to you for that piece of wisdom Livius!

  3. Andreea says:

    Besski thank you so much for this useful lesson: I learned that I need to believe in my long distance relationship and do not give up to despair and discouragement from my friends and family. My relationship is a very complicated one, our parents are not happy about us having a long distance relationship and they don’t believe that we’ll make it till the end. But you helped us find hope. I am very thankful to you for that.
    I especially love the idea about being curious about the future instead of being afraid of what will happen. This has helped us both, me and my boyfriend to be optimistic about our relationship. thank you so much!

    • Right on Andreea! I love the “being curious instead of afraid” idea so much too. It was such a live changing idea for me as well when I first heard of it.

  4. Bruno says:

    Mr. Besski I learned how to have better conversations with my girlfriend. Really!! After a few months of long distance relationship we started to have those slow and pretty boring conversations… but here you shared with me so many ideas to improve our talks. And I have used them and it helped us escape the boredom we used to hate.

  5. Shubham says:

    Hey Mr. besski, i dont ‘ve much more or less to say.. but one thing I cannot stop myself from saying is.. Your articles are just an impeccable source for the lovers who really want maintain their long distance relationship.. i have been knowing few of ’em by myself, but you showed me the really and precise way to execute them.. the best insight according to me that help me like anything is.. 80-20% attachment concept.. i dint have that much patience because i love her like anything, but u showed me the essence of ignoring a she respects me more.

  6. Rene says:

    The greatest lesson I’ve learned, and perhaps the thing most people forget about in a relationship, is detachment. It is arguably what saved my relationship early on when I was starting to turn off my girlfriend with my neediness. I wanted to hang out with her all the time on Skype, I wanted to text and talk to her all the time on the phone and it was starting to take a toll on the relationship. That’s when I found your website and started studying and reading and re-reading everything on it and on your ebook. Surely enough, we’ve now been going strong for almost a year. She says I’m the best boyfriend she’s ever had (including non-long distance relationships) and she loves me with all her heart. We’re due to close the distance in less than two months thanks to you, Mr. Livius.

    Neediness and attention/validation-seeking behavior are the biggest turn-offs in a relationship. Don’t do that, guys. Listen to what Livius says, follows his teachings and everything will work like a charm. Trust the man.

  7. Thami says:

    Hi Besski. I’m in Durban (South Africa) and my girlfriend is in Cape Town (South Africa). The distance between us is about 790 miles. We had met in December 2012 on some social network. The greatest lesson I’ve learned from following your work is that a long distance relationship is not for the faint hearted and that it really defines love. If your love can survive the distance between the two of you then the two of you can survive anything. We are closing the distance this year in March. After reading your advice on how to go about closing the distance gap, I suggested to her the great opportunities there are in her line of work here in Durban and assisted her in searching the net for those opportunities. Luckily enough she has been appointed in one of the major banking institutions (Barclays Absa) here in Durban and is required to resume duties in March after she has assisted training someone who will be left doing her current job where she works when she leaves. So your advice of giving your partner a solid reason rather than love to relocate worked for me.

  8. Ian says:

    After one month of distance between my girlfriend and I, our relationship was in imminent danger and I had no idea. Neediness was going to destroy us. The best advice I got was from you. I worked on fixing myself instead of the relationship. I learned to accept that I can find happiness from within and don’t need the girlfriend as an external source of identity. By changing the way I looked at her, I changed the relationship. I know I am a great guy now, and realize that I’m someone she considers herself lucky to have. It all comes down to being a man worth loving and the easiest way to accomplish that is to love and respect yourself.

  9. Emmanuel E. Eke says:

    My dear, I really love what you are doing, because, it has given most of us ways of handling our long distance relationship. In the sense that I am now a guy that gets a lot of respect from my girlfriend because of the principle you shared last year, about guys letting their girlfriends know about those things that are not acceptable for us guys, that our girlfriends sometimes are doing or just did. And also another idea was the one of writing her a poem when the feeling of missing her a lot comes up which helps to liberate the mind of thinking it’s a negative emotion, when it’s just an energy that needs to be released in one way or another. Thanks so much and God bless you.

    Emmanuel E. Eke

    • Great points Emmanuel. I just love hearing how these ideas have impacted your life and relationship! It’s just incredible how one simple idea can sometimes change the way we feel, the way we act and our happiness in general. Now you feel more at ease when you miss her, and your girlfriend respects you more… what great results to achieve! Thank you so much for sharing man!

  10. Adrian Mihalache says:

    “Don’t be needy!” Was the wake up call from you, and since then I have the beautiful relationship that I have now. Salut!

  11. Mutu says:

    Hey Man! I’m currently in a LDR, and you saved my life before its too late. Your articles are very very helpful. Thanks a lot man.. i Salute you 😀

  12. Olawuwealth Oloyede says:

    Beski Man. Thanks for all the advice you gave me personally it works

  13. Micheal says:

    Mr. Besski Livius, thanks a lot for your articles. Your are the man, i wish that almost every guy out there could subscribe to your website. pliz pliz pliz keep on. you are really doing a very nice job. I appreciate this so much!

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