10 Conversation Games To Make Your Talks More Fun

Right now I wanna share with you my list of 10 awesome games to play in your conversations.

Like we talked in my What Else Do I Say? book, talking on Skype or over the phone is not so much about the content of the conversation, as it’s about the connection that you guys build with each other.

Most people tend to put too much attention on the content of the conversation, when actually it’s the connection that matters the most. Your daily talks are meant to allow you to spend some quality time together, so it’s not that important what you talk about, as long as you guys talk.

And a conversation game like this will allow you to connect and have fun in the process, even if the content of the talk is not that clever.

The most important thing here is to have a playful mindset.

Seriousity is a love repellent. You don’t have to be all serious all the time.

At times being playful and even childish, no matter what you age is, can be the best thing you can do for your relationship.

Therefore, here’s the list:

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10 Compliments That Will Melt Her Heart

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We all LOVE and MISS our partners, and telling them that is a great way to express affection, but not the ONLY way.

After a while “I love you” and “I miss you” get quite old and lose their meaning for our partner.

The good news is that you’re not limited to only these two expressions of love and affection. There’s a lot more fun and touching ways to compliment a girl and tell her much she means to you.

Therefore below I’m going to share with you 10 ways to express your affection beyond the usual “I miss you” and “I love you”. Ten compliments that will touch her heart and turn you into her prince charming.

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Why Follow This Blog In 2014?

Hey guys (and girls),

Last year has been an amazing year for our Long Distance Lover Community.

We increased our number and now we’ve got 2692 members. Some of us have closed the distance, some of us have been through a lot of struggles and survived, and all of us have grown and become better lovers [I hope] after joining this community and taking responsibility for our love lives.

In this awesome year of 2013 we managed to organize our first Long Distance Relationship Workshop here in Denmark at a local university thanks to the help of an awesome AIESEC team.

We inspired some of the most wise long distance veterans out there to share some of their wisdom with us here.

We launched the Long Distance Loyalty course, which has received amazing love from you guys…

…and I am so proud of us as a community, and so FIRED UP to keep bringing my best ideas to the table!

For this year, my fellow long distance lovers, I have even BIGGER plans for us. And I am super inspired to make these plans HAPPEN this year!

Because I hope you didn’t forget that I’m on a quest here to DESTROY the common and mistaken belief that LDRs don’t work and give you all the knowledge you need to make your LDR work like a charm! And I invite you to join me on this quest.

So, let’s see what you can expect from 2014…

1. Inspire Faithfulness Campaign

For the beginning of this year I will be dedicated to addressing this HUGE and overwhelming problem: overcoming jealousy and fear of being cheated on.

It’s too much of a stressful problem and I want to really help you guys get it out of the way, so that we can move forward to the more fun part of – building attraction.

So for the first few weeks I will be sharing some valuable articles and tips on how to overcome this fear and inspire your girlfriend to be 100% devoted to you.

But, if you don’t want to wait, read all about preventing cheating here.

2. Borderless Attraction Guide

Finally, after so many readers have asked for it, very soon I’ll be launching what I call the “Borderless Attraction Guide”.

A guide that is meant to give you all you need to know to be able to keep attraction on fire in your long distance relationship. In my experience, most of the problems that creep in a relationship are due to lack of attraction from one of the partners.

When this KEY aspect is handled – everything else just falls into its place….and the long distance relationship works just like it did in those first few weeks when you were both head over heels for each other.

This guide will show you exactly how to bring those emotions and butterflies in your stomach back into your relationship.

The guide will be released around March. If you don’t want to miss it, sign up to stay updated here. (opens in a new tab)

3. The Long Distance Lover’s Bible

This year I also plan on creating a manual for every long distance lover to read and be fully capable of having an easy, stress free and successful long distance relationship.

I’ll be using the content from the best and most popular articles on the blog, plus adding new and fresh ideas, plus organizing it in a clear and structured manner. It’s going to be the Long Distance Lover’s Bible. (both for men and for women, by the way) And I’ll devote the months of May and June to this exciting project.

4. Conversations Goldmine

Another main problem that I hear a lot of you complaining about is running out of things to say: what to talk about during those long conversations and therefore how to make your phone/Skype talks more fun.

So for the second half of the year, I plan on working on a new course called “Conversations Goldmine”. I already have most of the ideas for it ready, and this course will teach you exactly how to keep conversations going for as long as you want. How to make them more fun and never run out of things to say.

5. Intensive Personal Coaching.

This year I will be intensively dedicated to doing a lot more personal 1-on-1 coaching with you guys.

I’ve noticed that some of the most inspiring stories that I got from my readers came not as much from reading my articles, but from working with me personally and getting personalized solutions to their unique problems.

So this year I will be looking for various ways to free up more time to be able to coach you personally so that you can have an awesome relationship this year.

Book your “True Lover” free coaching session here. (opens in a new tab)

6. Quality Weekly Content

I made it a promise to myself to create one great article for you every week, addressing various LDR issue and giving you valuable tips to apply.

And I intend to keep my promise. (and I want you to keep me accountable, if you notice that I missed a week without publishing a great piece of content, you can get really angry and let me know!)

So, I want you to keep your eyes on your inbox, because you’ll be getting some great tips and ideas this year. And feel free to let me know if you have a special topic you’d like me to write about.

Sign up to receive every new article in your inbox here. (opens in a new tab)

7. Speaking Events

Last year we did our first event here at a local university, where I shared some of my favorite tips with students on how to make their LDRs work like a charm. And the feedback was amazing.

People loved the ideas, which inspired me to organize some more of these events this year at other universities. And I look so much forward to that. I want every student to have a happy long distance relationship so that he/she can focus on their studies and enjoy their youth without stress and worries.

And, btw, if you want me to come and speak at your university, and would like to give a hand in organizing the event (which is quite simple) then I invite you to write me an email and we’ll talk about that.

 8. Your Long Distance Love Story Contest

There is also one very important CONTEST that I can’t wait to launch. But that’s a little surprise that I’ll share with you very soon in another article.

This being said, my friends…let’s officially declare the year of 2014 started! Let the love fire us up and make us happy this year!

Talk to you very soon,


Besski Livius, you long distance relationship mentor!

PS: If you’re not signed up yet, go ahead and join our Long Distance Lover’s Community by signing up to our newsletter. As a gift you’ll get my “3 Deadly Mistakes” eye-opening ebook, and we’ll stay in touch with new weekly tips.

Making Your Long Distance Relationship Work: Alternatives to Social Media

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Guest Post by Andrei Milosevic

When I was twenty-one, I fell in love with a woman who lived in California. This wouldn’t have been a problem, if I’d lived in California. Unfortunately, at the time, I wasn’t even living in the continental United States. Needless to say, our relationship wasn’t easy—long distance relationships never are.

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7 Golden Rules of Texting

In this article you’ll discover 7 rules that I use in my texting with my fiance in order to make sure that I avoid neediness and I keep my woman attracted.

Even though these 7 rules are pretty common sense, unfortunately most guys are NOT aware of their existence.

But if you are aware of these rules and you stick to them in your text communication, then you’ll be amazed at how much more enjoyable and attractive your text communication will become.

Rule #1 – Rule of reciprocity

If a man does not follow the rule of reciprocity, then he might easily fall into the neediness trap. And in my experience, neediness is on of the biggest killers of attraction in a relationship, especially if it comes from a man.

[Free Guide] I have created a practical guide to share with you 4 techniques to reduce neediness and regain your confidence (and your girlfriend’s attraction).
You can find the guide here.

In a long distance relationship guys can easily fall in the neediness trap by suffocating their girlfriends with a lot of text messages. And not following the rule of reciprocity.

Here’s how to use the rule of reciprocity in your texting:

If you are the one that sends her more texts than she sends you, then make sure to either cut down from the number of texts that you send her daily and/or encourage her to send you more texts.

Tell her that you love receiving texts from her; it makes your day, so encourage her to text you more often.

Ask her to send you a text any time she thinks more intensely of you, or anytime she does something interesting, or any times she sees a yellow car etc.

Yes, that could be a little text game you could be playing…Any time one of you sees on the street a yellow car, he/she should send a text messages to the other partner. (you could also be creative about this game and make your own rules)

Sometimes let her be the one to send you the first text that day, especially if you were the one to send her the last text the day before.

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