If your partner seems distant lately, not as committed as they used to be, and you feel stuck not knowing how to get them motivated again, read this page carefully.
If your partner is not putting as much effort in the relationship lately, not texting back as fast as he or she used to, being more hesitant and distant, which is making you anxious all the time. And you want to find a way (that actually works!) to get things back to normal. I am here to help you.
Hi, I'm Livius Besski and I help people everyday fix their relationship situation, through personal coaching sessions. One session costs 125$, but you've probably never done this before, so I'd like to encourage you to ask for help, by giving you a substantial discount. If you're seeing this page, then you can schedule a session at the symbolic price of 35$. (if there's any spots left)
You came to my site, looking for answers to your long distance relationship challenges.
That’s how all men come here. (and some women, too)
And then you signed up with your email to get some ideas from me.
You probably read some of my guides and found the information helpful.
And you’ve probably applied some of the ideas already… and noticed some surprising results.
But you still feel like you need some personal help with your unique situation.
Your relationships is not as happy as you’d like it to be.
Your girlfriend/wife is not treating you as you’d like her to treat you.
You find yourself GIVING A LOT in the relationship. Putting a lot of effort into it.
And not getting much back from her.
You’re still not confident enough to speak up, and really ask for what you want in your relationship.
Because you don’t want to MESS it up even more.
Well, I am here to tell you that:
THERE ARE ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS
There are solutions to your problems.
You just have to ask for them.
And this page is a chance for you to do that.
All you have to do is book your call and ask.
And I am here to show you how you too can have the relationship that actually works.
And makes you happy, and more importantly makes your woman happy too!
This is why I am giving away (almost for free) this opportunity to have a call with me.
I have set aside some time this weekend, to talk to a few people, and support them.
To give you a hand. To create the space for you to come and share your struggle. And get the answers you need.
Because you don’t have to struggle with love alone. You don’t have to sit quietly anymore. You don’t have to be afraid to find solutions, from people who have those solutions.
I have dedicated my life to UNDERSTANDING what it takes to have an AMAZING relationship.
And now I’m helping men every single day to have those kind of romantic relationships.
You could be one of them, you could have me look at your situation, and POINT you in the right direction.
And this weekend coaching session is your chance at an almost laughable price… of 35$ out of my usual rate of 125$ per hour.
So, what is YOUR burning question, brother man?
Most men think that they don’t deserve what they want.
So they don’t ask for it.
And they never get the kind of treatment from their girlfriend that they wish they had.
But it’s all because you are PLAYING SMALL.
Because you don’t even think you COULD be treated like you want.
For you it’s almost normal for your partner to not give you the kind of affection, attention and appreciation that you really want from her.
You think you could never get that kind of treatment…
So you tolerate what you CAN get right now.
And are afraid to ask for more.
(because you don’t know how to do it right)
But more importantly because you don’t want to lose the little love you get right now.
So you’re stuck in a place where you want more, but can’t ask for more, because:
you don’t believe you deserve it
you don’t think you could get it
you don’t know how to ask for more
and most importantly…
because you’re worried that if you DO speak up - you could lose the attention and affection that you’re getting right now even.
And even lose your partner at all… and be left alone and heartbroken.
Having failed at love again.
And I want to say that if this is where you are, I totally understand how you feel. Because I was in exactly this position.
And man, it felt so hard.
I felt like I was always walking on ice, trying to chose my words when I talked to my girlfriend. Trying to figure our “the right ways” to ask her to turn on the camera, to take off her shirt, or to even agree to talk to me on Skype.
And most of the times I couldn’t get her to do any of those things.
She would just get upset with my insistence, and blame me for being immature.
Or for forcing her to do what she doesn’t want to do.
It was sooo hard to get from her the love, effort and appreciation that I wanted.
I was the one to put SO much effort in the relationship…thinking about her all day… sending her lots of texts, doing nice things for her… thinking of gifts and surprises for her…
And she didn’t appreciate those things as much as I expected.
And worst of all, her behavior wouldn’t change.
She would still ignore my texts, answer with short one-word replies, postpone our Skype talks, refuse to give me her camera because she was tired, not want to play sexually because she didn’t feel like it (she never did).
And it was hard man…. having a relationship like that was really hard.
Now I know what the problem was, and why she was acting like that.
And why I was acting the way I did (because I didn’t know any better).
But at the time I didn’t know…
Now it’s my girlfriend (well fiancé now) who can’t get enough of me.
She wants to talk on Skype every day, to play sexually together, sending me lots of selfies and pictures of what she’s doing… (I like the naughty ones most) :)
Since I realized what was the problem and changed my approach a few years back… my relationship right now (and for the last 5 years) is MUCH MUCH different.
It’s just easy… full of love, and my woman loves me (adores me) for exactly who I am, even without me putting much effort into the relationship.
It’s hard to believe even for me… how huge the change is.
And that’s exactly what happens to ALL the guys I work with these days.
They change their mindset in our coaching sessions, and their relationship changes overnight.
I have this guy Ahmad, who’s girlfriend is now the needy one.
I have Josh, who is getting married soon, even after his girlfriend being on the edge of leaving him.
I have other guys (and girls) who have ended their relationships, because they didn’t accept being treated like that anymore.
And in some cases their girlfriend, running back to them, convincing them to be together again.
While in other cases, now these guys are simply dating new women.
Having friends with benefits… like Hayoung from Korea, told me he had 2 friends with benefits now and has no desire to get in a relationship yet.
You can read some of their stories below.
But you get the point…
Hopefully now you understand that you DON’T have to settle for being treated this way.
For being neglected by your partner. For your desires being refused.
Your efforts and affection being unappreciated.
And your needs being unmet.
You can have it all… you can have the SATISFYING relationship that you want.
But you have to be willing to change your mindset.
And have a clear and simple plan of how to do that.
This is the work that I do nowadays… I help men change their mindset.
So that they can be treated RIGHT in their relationship and be ADORED literally by their partner.
If you are interested in doing that too… I have set aside a few spots in my calendar for the next few days this weeked, to talk to you, and show you how you can do that.
The cost of this coaching session is super low, for the weekend only. So that I can get to know your situation, and give you a clear plan of action to deal with it.
I’ll teach you how to change your mindset really fast.
How would you like if your partner texted you back within minutes after your texts?
Called you on Skype and wanted to talk to you everyday?
Sent you pictures of her everyday doing thing in her life, (even naughty ones too) and initiated herself some sexual plays with you?
Was committed to the relationship. Eager to see you again as soon as possible. And motivated to close the distance?
Because she REALLY wanted to make you happy, and satisfy you.
How would you want her to be so into you that you almost want to escape from her, and need some space, because she’s giving you TOO much affection :)
Let see how you can do that… because its possible.
It’s not only possible, but it’s how things are supposed to be.
But there are false beliefs and ideas in our heads that are holding us back
So we’re stuck in thinking that love is hard and that’s the best we can get.
You see most men sit in pain and struggle quietly.
They think that they are MEN, and they need to face their issues on their own.
so they feel alone…
they feel overwhelmed…
they feel misunderstood…
They tolerate way more than they should be tolerating.
Because they want to PLEASE their woman.
Because they think that by pleasing, she'll be happy.
Which far from the truth.
Ending up suffocating their partner with too much caring.
Too much certainty. And too much neediness.
They give their best, and don’t get much in return.
They try… really hard to make love work.
But their partner doesn’t seem to notice that!
You know the rate of suicide after a breakup or divorce is 3 times higher for men, than it is for women!
Because women have a bunch of friends to talk to, and share their struggle, and get support from.
While MEN sit all alone, in their darkness, in their humiliation, scared to show up and share their struggle, they are afraid to be judged, seen as weak, and not good enough.
So what they do? They FALL…
But it doesn’t have to be like that!
When you struggle with love, with life, with your business
You have to speak up, and you have to find help.
There is no shame in finding help.
There is smartness in finding help.
The best businesspeople and athletes GET HELP.
Which is why they are the best.
They are speaking up, seeking the best in their field and ask for help… because they know that struggling alone is stupid… yes is stupid… because it just doesn’t make sense. It’s based on fear.
We’re all GOOD at something… and we could use each other’s expertise.
You may be good at fixing a car, building a business, or doing your job well.
And I am amazing at fixing people’s relationships, and getting them to be LOVED for who they are, by a woman who can’t get enough of them.
You’re not to blame if you’re not good at this…
Because you haven’t FOCUSED on this (until now)
You focused on other areas of your life, not on leaning how love works.
So of course you struggle.
I may need to take lessons from you about what you ARE good at, and you may need to take lessons from me, at what I am GREAT at - and that is RELATIONSHIPS.
Fixing them, and getting them back on the right track - where they work as a charm.
And this is your chance to get that help.
Men pay me $125 per hour to get the help, and now you’re able to get it at a fraction of that.
Because I know that you’re scared. I know that you’re afraid to ask for help. Because you think you’ll be judged.
And don’t trust that someone COULD help you.
Because you think you HAVE to do it alone.
Well you don’t…
And I am here to support you.
I am here to encourage you to take that first step to fixing your situation with love right now.
So I am giving you this crazy discount.
You can book a call with me this weekend for just $35, out of $125
And get your situation sorted out.
Get your questions answered.
Get your problems solved.
Get your partner back in love again, excited to be with you, and PROUD to have you as her man.
But you have to step up and ask for help.
We all could use some help. And this is your chance to get it.
It’s time to fix our relationship, and enjoy it to the fullest.
Your mentor of love, and brother in pain…
Chose your time to talk privately with me, and help you fix your situation, and get the love that you want and deserve from your partner.
I recently had the chance to do a session with Livius, and although I wasn’t sure what to expect, Livius helped me realize how much power I have in my relationship. He was very open and honest, and changed my perspective. His advice is very insightful!
Debbie realized that she deserves more, and found the courage to end a relationship that was making her anxious. Then she met another guy who is caring about her and treating her lovingly, and now she feels like she knows what she’s doing in her relationship.”
When Debbie contacted me she was feeling really anxious about her relationship.
Which was affecting her a lot, to the point where she was worrying so much about the relationship, that it was consuming her every thought, making it hard to just relax in her everyday life… because she didn't know where her relationship was at.
She was having this bad anxiety and ideas that made it so hard to see things in another perspective, since she was in her head a lot.
She tried taking time to reevaluate herself and this relationship, and trying to focus on bettering herself and growing more as a person and how she can be in a healthier mindset, but it's been hard focusing still, which is why she reached out for coaching.
After just our first session on changing her mindset, she started feeling more relaxed and free again. Over the next few weeks working together, her situation changed radically.
She found the courage to end her relationship, that just wasn’t working for her. And confessed to me that she feels so liberated and free again. She learned to love herself ‘like her own flavor of ice-cream’ and soon enough found another man to be with. This time one that’s a real gentlemen, who’s open and caring with her, and treating her with great respect.
When we last talked, Debbie was so confident and so happy, that she really inspired me. And one thing that stood out for me was her saying that “right now I really feel like I KNOW what I'm doing in my relationship” and won’t fall back in the neediness trap again.
My partner started taking my presence for granted lately, but this session gave me a better understanding of what I can say, to be more clear about what I want in this relationship.
Josh got rid of his anxiety and insecurities, moved to live with his girlfriend in Costa Rica, where they lived together for 2 years, traveling and making memories, and now she’s coming to Switzerland and they are planning to get married”
When Josh first talked to me, he was feeling anxious and insecure about the relationship. He was afraid of losing his girlfriend, because she was having doubts about the relationship, not sure if she can handle the distance anymore, and almost ready to give up on him.
He lived in Switzerland and she was working in Costa Rica. And the relationship was on the edge of a break-up. She was very busy, wasn’t texting him much, and whenever they talked they ended up arguing.
When we got on Skype, he was stressed about his relationship, but I sensed a great desire to learn and figure out the right way to make relationships work. And I knew that I could help him.
After a few weeks working together, Josh was rapidly changing his mindset, he regained his self-confidence, he overcame his fear of losing his girlfriend, and told me that “I have never felt more at peace and sure of my relationship.” He got his girlfriend’s attraction and commitment back, and moved to Costa Rica to be with her.
This is what he said after our coaching program ended: “Damn! It was one my best decisions that I made to do this coaching. And I am so happy. I cannot thank you enough for everything, all the wisdom that you shared with me. Some people may never find somebody in their life to teach them these things. They will have to learn them the hard way, or they will not even learn them. This is so valuable, I don’t have words to tell you.”
In the past two years they lived together, traveling across South America and Mexico, and now he returned to Switzerland, so she’s coming to live with him for a while, and they are planning to get married.
Here’s what he told me recently when I checked on him:
I’ve come to terms with the idea of not getting my relationship back. I will still do my best to rekindle that (and now I know better how to do that, by the way). But I’m open to other possibilities, and even thrilled about them. This is a major shift in my perspective!
Ahmad was feeling needy in his relationship, being neglected by his girlfriend, but after working together, he found the courage to stand up for himself and now his girlfriend is madly in love with him, dreaming to be his wife and make him babies.”
Ahmad really surprised me one day, because I worked with him about a year ago, and recently he booked a paid coaching session through my site. I thought he needed some support with his love life, but instead he just wanted to thank me for the mentality change he experienced as a result of our coaching.
This is what he said:
“I want to say that you have completely changed my life. The sessions we had last year have made me become so much more confident in my relationships with women. One year ago, the girl I was in a relationship with was being very distant toward me, and not giving me as much time and affection as I wanted.
But after we talked, I found the confidence to tell her that ‘things cannot continue this way’, and I was surprised at how quickly and how radically she changed her behavior. We have been together for another year after that, and had a great relationship. But had to end the relationship because she her parents promised her to another man, which is how most women get married in our culture. And although she didn’t want to do it, I encouraged her to respect her parent’s decision.
Right now, I am having a lot of success with women. I recently had a relationship with a beautiful woman for a few months, and then we broke up because she had to go back to her country and I didn’t want to do long distance this time.
But that’s good because I recently met a model actually, at an art exposition. I was so confident this time, that when I saw her I knew that I wanted to talk to her. If before I would have been very shy and hesitant, now I went to talk to her straight away, and after a few minutes even got her number. We met for a date, which was great. But I decided that our life interests and passions were not similar, so I told her that we’re not a good fit.
So this is how my life is now, thanks to your coaching. It really changed who I am, and I am so thankful for that.
Sometimes now, women approach me even. That’s how huge the change was for me. Thank you Livius. I wanted to share this with you, so that you know what kind of impact you have in people’s lives, and you continue doing this.”
I tend to check in on the guys I worked with, to see how they’re doing currently, and this is what Ahmad recently wrote me:
“I am doing great and now I have a lovely Girlfriend who loves me the way I deserve & want.
Let me tell you about her a little bit.
She’s a very feminine woman. She does everything possible to make me happy, she blows up my phone, sends me all sorts of gifts and wants to be with me all the time. Yesterday I took her on a date and she called me after I dropped her home saying “Thanks babe for the amazing night, I love you more than anything”.
This morning she called me saying she’s missing me already.
You really changed my mentality on a lot of things. I still face challenges, but with what I’ve learned so far, I can quickly find solutions and modify my approach depending on the situation.
Thanks for the things you teach, I am now teaching my friends how to become real men.”
And this is the picture he attached.
When I asked him what shifted for him, he said: “I realized that I am awesome, that my life is awesome, and if a girl comes in, she either makes it more awesome or she’s not a good fit for me.”
I’d say that’s a pretty big shift, when it really clicks and sinks in deeply. When we realize that relationships are based on choice, not neediness, and we only chose a partner and a relationship that’s good for us, and don’t tolerate anything less, magical things happen, like this brave man’s story above.
Stories like this inspire me to keep doing what I’m doing: reminding men how much freedom, power and potential they have in their own relationships.
Ahmad scheduled a coaching call recently to help him figure out what to do with his relationship right now. The problem he has right now is that his girlfriend is the needy one. She’s the one suffocating him with love and affection, and this is making him doubt the relationship.
This is the kind of high quality ‘problem’ that you start having once you overcome neediness and have the perfect mindset, your partner adores you… and sometimes even too much. :)
After our call, he learned that whatever he decided to do, to stay together or break-up, he should not act out of fear, and do what feels right for him. And a few days later this is what he wrote me:
“Since our last Skype call. I talked to my girlfriend, told her how I felt and ended the relationship kinda on good terms.
I feel somewhat relieved that I am not hiding something because of fear anymore.
I will explore the dating life again and see what happens. “
Man I just wanted to let you know how much our training helped me improve my game with girls, and understand them better. Keep it up man, you have a gift.
Rahul learned to stand up for himself in a relationship, had the courage to end a relationship that wasn’t working for him, and now he’s feeling confident and carefree, meeting women and being complimented on how amazing he is.”
Rahul contacted me because his girlfriend was not texting him like she used to. They met on a trip in UK. Then kept talking for a few weeks. She was the one to propose that they had a relationship. But then suddenly, she became very distant.
She started texting him less, and then disappeared for a few days without any sign.
This made him very anxious and he said that his brain was going wild. He was overwhelmed by fear of losing her. So he wanted to talk to an expert.
Once we started working together on his mindset, and he learned how to approach his situation… his girlfriend became interested again. Although she wasn’t planning it, she decided to go visit him from Australia to Canada.
They spent some great few days together, but there were some things that still bothered Rahul about her behavior. And he found the courage to tell her exactly what he didn’t like, he said that he deserves to be treated better, and that maybe this relationship wasn’t worth it.
And although she wasn’t to happy about it. Suddenly she changed her behavior completely. The next days she was more caring toward him, she kept buying him donuts and being interested in his life more.
But still, Rahul felt like it was best to end the relationship. And he was at peace with his decision.
After our training Rahul found the confidence to be himself again, he learned to love himself exactly as he is, and to be totally carefree in his life.
He recently sent me an email saying:
“I really wanted to thank you for sharing your knowledge with me and share my experience. Since finishing the program, I have regained what I used to be few years ago - Fearless, authentic and believer that things happen for a reason. In past 3 months, I have met so many amazing woman from different countries, different background and ages. Many of them have complimented me on my attitude, how I am different and a breath of fresh air. I have taken your suggestion to be ruthless in my selection before I enter in a relationship.
I have taken this approach and applied it to my friendships too, work and people that I meet. It's paying rewards, I am glad that I stepped out of my comfort zone and took sessions with you. May be we can touch base after couple of months and see how things are going. Have a great spring my friend.”
I am much more relaxed about our relationship now, and I'm able to take things one day at a time. I have also gotten over my obsessive thinking about my girlfriend.
Hayoung was afraid of being himself in his relationship, but then found his self-confidence, ended his relationship that wasn’t working, and is now dating other girls, and having not just one, but two friends with benefits.”
When Hayoung reached out to me, he wrote: “I feel so insecure that it is difficult to be myself around her. I think it may have to do with the fact that, for the first time in years, I really want her to love me, so on the flip side I am terrified that she might not like me once she gets to see how I am. I realize this is a very vicious cycle... because, though other people know me as a carefree, fun guy, this fear makes me a boring guy, and sometimes I feel I am boring her to death. This confidence issue, I believe, might be the main challenge that I must overcome.”
He said that FEAR is the biggest factor that has been preventing him from overcoming this issue. He kept telling himself that it is an irrational fear, that even if she does not end up loving him, there are plenty other girls out there. But it wasn’t easy to convince himself when he liked her that much, like he has never felt for anyone before.
He tried going to therapy, but it was of no use. He tried talking to a close friend, but had no progress. So he scheduled a consultation.
Within a few sessions Hayoung was a different person. He completely overcame his fear of losing his girlfriend. He felt carefree again, and able to be himself. And he decided that the relationship wasn’t a good fit for him anymore. So he ended it remaining as friends.
I’ll let him tell you more about it:
“A day or two after our session regarding boundaries and standards, I had a frank talk with her, and we reached the agreement to continue as just friends. The me of a few months ago would have been destroyed, given how much I had loved her. The new carefree me, I was unfazed, thanks to the detachment. It's just a slice of the pie, and with so many other girls waiting in line to fill in that blank space, it didn't seem like a big deal. Anyway, I seem much happier lately, and people around me feel this. “
He was telling me that the confidence principles he was learning from our training helped him be even better at his job. And also that girls were noticing his change in attitude.
Two months later he wrote me saying:
“Currently I don't have a girlfriend. Just a couple of friends with benefits. I am not looking to start a serious relationship at this point in my life - I would rather focus my energy on other things.”
If these stories of my past clients sound familiar to what you're going through right now - worrying about the relationship, putting a lot of effort and not getting back the same effort and appreciation from your partner. Which is making you anxious all the time, and you want things to go back to normal, to feel relaxed and yourself again, and your partner to love you like she used to, then apply for a session and let me show you how to do that.