Long Distance Vibrators: Top 11 Bluetooth & App Controlled Options in 2020

by Lindsay | Last Updated: July 15, 2020
long distance vibrators

Have you been thinking about introducing long distance vibrators into your relationship? 

We think they are a great idea for LDR couples for several reasons:

What Is a long distance vibrator, and how does it work?

Originally known as remote control vibrators, these devices came with an actual remote. Now, long distance vibrators incorporate Bluetooth technology, allowing them to connect to smartphone apps. Through these apps, you or your partner can control vibration modes and intensity from anywhere in the world.

The Best Vibrators for Long Distance Relationships in 2020

Remote Control Rabbit Vibrators

Nora by Lovense

Nora by Lovense

If you want a tried and true product, the Nora by Lovense was the first Bluetooth-compatible rabbit vibrator on the market. They have continued to refine Nora, which has now been updated six times, improving features like:

We do like how many customizable vibration settings there are on the Nora. No matter what type of stimulation you like from a rabbit vibrator, Nora provides it.

Nora Partner Controls

Along with being able to choose the vibration modes, your partner can control the rotating head and vibrating arm individually through the Lovense Remote App. Nora can also connect to and be controlled by other Lovense devices, such as the Max 2 (male stroker) or even another Nora.

Nora Settings

Nora’s rotating head:

  • Slow
  • Medium
  • Fast

Nora’s vibrations:

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Fireworks
  • Earthquake

Nora Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone & ABS plastic
  • Insertable Length: 4.72”
  • Charge Time: 2.5 hours
  • Usage Time: 3-4 hours
  • Waterproof: Splashproof

OhMiBod Fuse: Powered by Kiiroo

Fuse by Kiiroo

The OhMiBod Fuse is a long distance vibrator that’s packed with features. 

We love the versatility of the Fuse. Not only can you control it yourself or have it controlled by your partner, but you can also sync the toy with video, VR, or games.

Fuse Partner Controls

For long distance fun, the Fuse can be controlled via the FeelConnect App or by another connected device from Kiiroo. When used with another toy, the speed and movements from one toy adjust the speed and movements of the other. 

Fuse Vibration Settings

  • Bluetooth mode
  • Touch-sensitive mode
  • Seven pre-set pulsations

Fuse Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone & ABS plastic
  • Length: 7.1”
  • Width: 1.3”
  • Charge Time: 2 hours
  • Usage Time: up to 1 hour
  • Waterproof: Splashproof

Nova by We-Vibe

Nova by We-Vibe

Some women don’t like rabbit-style vibrators because they can lose contact with the clitoris as you move in and out. A flexible clitoral stimulator sets the Nova by We-Vibe apart because the flexible arm allows it to maintain pressure. 

The shape of Nora looks intimidating at first, until you understand the function of that shape. You may think to aim the pointy end of the clitoral stimulator directly on your clitoris, but it’s actually the broad side of the arm.

Here’s a demonstration.

Nova Partner Controls

For long distance control you or your partner can adjust the vibration modes via the We-Connect App. The application also has secure video and chat functionality so you don’t have to swap between different platforms. Nova also has buttons on the end of the device for personal use.

Nova Vibration Settings

  • Vibrate
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Echo
  • Tide
  • Crest
  • Bounce
  • Surf
  • Peak
  • Cha-Cha-Cha

You can also create your own custom vibrations with the We-Connect App.

Nova Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone
  • Insertable Length: 3.1”
  • Insertable Width: 1.3”
  • Charge Time: 1.5-2 hours
  • Usage Time: up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof: Yes

Remote Control Egg Vibrators

Lush 2 by Lovense

Lush 2 by Lovense

If you’re interested in egg vibrators, there are two reasons why the Lush 2 by Lovense should be on your radar.

  1. It’s range of vibration intensity is four times wider than other options.
  2. It is super quiet, only creating 45.5 dB at top speed.

For those who enjoy the thrill of a wearable vibrator, the Lush 2 is an excellent choice thanks to its accessible on/off button. That means you can wear it all day, then turn it on and let your partner know when you’re ready for some discreet fun. 

Lush 2 is also waterproof, making it usable in the bath or shower.

Lush 2 Partner Controls

The only physical controls on the Lush 2 is the on/off button. This means you or your partner have to use the Lovense Remote App to control the device. It’s also worth noting that the Lush 2 is compatible with the Lovense Remote Apple Watch App.

Lush 2 Vibration Settings

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Fireworks
  • Earthquake 

Lush 2 Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone
  • Length: 7.12”
  • Width: 1.37”
  • Charge Time: 70 minutes
  • Usage Time: 2.5-3 hours
  • Waterproof: Yes

OhMiBod Esca 2: Powered by Kiiroo

OhMiBod Esca 2 Powered by Kiiroo

The second-generation of the OhMiBod Esca 2 kept what worked well and improved what didn’t, creating an exceptional wearable vibrator.

One improved area is the reinforced tail. It generates a much stronger Bluetooth signal, so there’s less risk of disconnection from the app during use.

We also like that the Esca 2 has better battery life, which now lasts up to three hours on a single charge. The team at Kiiroo also included an LED light to add to the visual experience.

It’s worth noting that the LED light can be turned off if you’re in a situation where you need to be discreet!

Esca 2 Partner Controls

You or your partner can use the the FeelConect App to control the different vibration modes and intensity. The power button on the Esca 2 is also used for cycling through the different vibration modes with turned on.

Esca 2 Vibration Settings

  • Manual mode
  • Bluetooth mode
  • Four pre-set pulsations

Esca 2 Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone and ABS Plastic
  • Length: 7.3”
  • Width: 1.3”
  • Charge Time: 1.5 hours
  • Usage Time: up to 3 hours
  • Waterproof: Splashproof

Jive by We-Vibe

Jive by We-Vibe

One aspect of the Jive by We-Vibe that sets it apart from other long distance vibrators is that is was designed in conjunction with doctors and sexual wellness experts.

Add in the fact that your partner can control it from anywhere in the world, and you have the recipe for discreet fun that’s always exciting and different.

If you like a wide range of variety with vibration settings then you’ll definitely enjoy this device. It has ten preset vibration modes and the We-Connect App allows you to create your own unique pulsations!

Jive Partner Controls

The easy to use We-Connect app allows you to control the Jive’s vibrations and pulsations in two different scenarios. It can be controlled via bluetooth (range of 20/30ft) if you are in the same room or via your wifi connection for long distance fun.

Jive Vibration Settings

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Ultra
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Tease
  • Ramp
  • Tempo
  • Massage

Jive Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone
  • Insertable Length: 3.66”
  • Insertable Width: 1.41”
  • Charge Time: 90 min
  • Usage Time: up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof: Yes

Remote Control G Spot Vibrators

Pearl 2 by Kiiroo

Pearl 2 by Kiiroo

Sometimes, simple is better, and that’s the case with the Pearl 2 by Kiiroo. If you’ve ever looked at a sex toy and been intimidated by it’s unusual shape, the Pearl 2 might be what you’ve been searching for.

But don’t think the basic design makes it a basic device!

This sleek toy is not short on power or function. With touch-sensitive technology, the vibrations become more intense the deeper you insert the toy and lessen as you remove it, which can make for a mind-blowing experience.

While the Pearl 2 is known as a remote control g-spot vibrator, users have commented that it is an equally effective option for clitoral stimulation.

Pearl 2 Partner Controls

Similar to other Kiiroo products, the Pearl 2 has multiple partner control options.

  • FeelConnect App: Allows you or your partner to change vibration modes and play with the intensity/speed.
  • Connected devices: Pearl 2 can connect to other Kiiroo devices, where the movements of the connected device will control the vibrations and intensity.

Pearl 2 Vibration Settings

  • Slow
  • Medium 
  • Fast 
  • Two pulsations

Pearl 2 Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone and ABS Plastic
  • Insertable Length: 5.11”
  • Insertable Width: 1.53”
  • Charge Time: 2 hours
  • Usage Time: 1 hour
  • Waterproof: Yes

Osci 2 by Lovense

Osci 2 by Lovense

The combination of oscillating vibrations, an oval head and ergonomic design make the Osci 2 by Lovense one of the best G-spot vibrators out there.

Oscillating vibrations?! View the demonstration.

Here’s how Lovense describes this unique feature:

Instead of vibrating like other traditional toys, our toy has a patented oscillating feature that moves the vibrations in and out – pleasuring your G-Spot in ways you’ve never imagined.

Lovense, Osci 2

Add the fact that it connects seamlessly to the Lovense Remote App and you have yourself one of the most innovative bluetooth vibrators for long distance couples.

It’s also worth mentioning that the Osci 2 can last up to a staggering 5 hours on a single charge.

Osci 2 Partner Controls

With the Lovense Remote App, your partner can control the oscilating mechanism from anywhere in the world. There are many settings to choose from, including preset pulses and the ability to create your own.

With this unique piece of tech, we think the music sync and sound activated vibrations are the most interesting options!

Osci 2 Vibration Settings

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Fireworks
  • Earthquake 

Osci 2 Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone and ABS plastic
  • Insertable Length: 3.2”
  • Insertable Width: 1.54”
  • Charge Time: 105 minutes
  • Usage Time: up to 5 hours 
  • Waterproof: Yes

Remote Control Clit Vibrators

Cliona by Kiiroo

Cliona by Kiiroo

The Cliona by Kiiroo was created to be the most ergonomic and comfortable option for women of all body types. It was specifically designed to eliminate any wrist pain during use.

Users have mentioned that the shape makes it easier to try different angles to find the best position.

While Cliona was primarily designed for clitoral stimulation, the sleek shape makes it an insertable option too.

Being 4.5” long, it’s also small enough to carry with you and take almost anywhere.

Cliona Partner Controls

Cliona’s vibration patterns and intensity can be controlled by your partner using the FeelConnect App, or via a connected Kiiroo device. These devices include:

  • Male strokers: Onyx+ and TITAN
  • App controlled vibrators: Fuse, Pearl 2, Esca 2 or another Cliona.

Want to know more about the Onyx+ and TITAN? See our article on the best hands free masturbators for long distance control.

Cliona Vibration Settings

  • 4 vibration modes
  • Several intensity levels

Cliona Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone and ABS plastic
  • Length: 4.53”
  • Width: 1.57”
  • Charge Time: 2 hours
  • Usage Time: 1 hour
  • Waterproof: Yes

Sync by We-Vibe

Sync by We-Vibe

All of the devices we’ve spoken about are great for long distance intimacy.

The Sync by We-Vibe is another great option that takes it a step further, also being designed for use while you’re physically together.

Let us explain 🙂

With the Sync, you get a device that provides both clitoral and G-spot stimulation. The unique ‘U’ shaped design helps it to stay in place, even as you change positions. The arm designed for G-spot stimulation is thin enough so that it can be used while having sex with your partner. So you can both enjoy a heightened experience when you get to be together!

Sync Partner Controls

You or your partner can control the Sync remotely via the We-Connect App or the included remote control. The remote control uses bluetooth and can only be used when in close proximity to the device (8 to 10 feet). While the app is perfect option to adjust the vibration modes and intensity for long distance fun.

Sync Vibration Settings

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Ultra
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Tease
  • Ramp
  • Tempo
  • Massage

Sync Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone
  • Length: 2.95”
  • Width: 1.64”
  • Charge Time: 2 hours
  • Usage Time: up to 1.5 hours
  • Waterproof: Yes

Remote Control Bullet Vibrators

Ambi by Lovense

Ambi by Lovense

The team at Lovense gave the Ambi a unique user friendly design that can provide multiple sensations to different areas.

Being shaped like the head of a hammer gives the device the ability to use different parts to provide different levels of pressure and pleasure, including:

See the visual breakdown here.

Combining this with multiple vibration patterns and a motor that’s known to be four times as powerful as other options gives you one of the most versatile long distance vibrators available.

Ambi Partner Controls

Like all Lovense products, your partner can control the Ambi’s vibration modes, speed and intensity through the Lovense Remote app.

When you and your partner can be together, Ambi can join the fun! The design allows it to be held comfortably while in positions such as cowgirl and missionary (see illustration).

Ambi Vibration Settings

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Fireworks
  • Earthquake 

Ambi Specs

  • Materials: Body safe silicone
  • Height: 3.39”
  • Length: 2.29”
  • Width: 1.08”
  • Charge Time: 70 minutes
  • Usage Time: up to 2 hours
  • Waterproof: Yes

The Long Distance Vibrator We Recommend

Each of the long distance vibrators we have explored are great options for LDR couples to enhance those intimate moments.

But, the option we are proud to recommend is Nora from the team at Lovense.

Here’s a few reasons why…

Nora vibrator by Lovense

Nora is Versatile

Being a remote control rabbit vibrator gives you many options when it comes to stimulation. Whether it’s clitoral or g-spot stimulation, Nora is designed to aid in both and even at the same time.

Connects With Other Lovense Devices

While Nora is a great option on it’s own. If your partner wants to join in on the fun, they can. Nora can connect to, control and be controlled by Lovense’s Max 2 (male stroker) or another Nora.

Having the ability to connect two Nora’s together (and even two Max 2’s) makes them LGBTQ+ friendly. We’re proud to support a company like Lovense that has an inclusive vision.

6th Generation

Lovense has been helping long distance couples share intimate moments for over 10 years. In that time they have continued to refine and improve their products. Nora has received multiple feature updates, creating one of the most immersive and user friendly options that’s currently available.

Lovense Remote App

Just like their physical devices, updates to the Lovense Remote App occur regularly. It makes it quick and easy to connecting devices to the app and to each other, while also providing a range of features to enhance the overall experience.

Adding in the fact that Nora is also one of the most affordable options makes it an amazing choice for your relationship. For more details on Nora’s features and capabilities, head on over to the official Lovense website.

Helpful Tips Before Buying a Long Distance Vibrator

Device Compatibility

Before buying any app controlled vibrators, make sure you can download the application to your phone or computer. While the Lovense App is compatible with Mac and Windows in addition to iOS and Android, Kiiroo and We-Vibe products will only work with Bluetooth-compatible iOS and Android mobile devices. 

Sizing Help

Is there anything worse than spending good money on a product, only to discover that it doesn’t fit? Before purchasing, use a tape measure to see what the measurements look like. Be sure to check the width (also called girth) and insertable length to make sure the toy will be comfortable for your body. 

Allergies

You would be amazed at how many cheap sex toys and lubricants contain common allergens and irritants.

Check the materials and ingredients of all sex toys and lubricants before making a purchase, and be sure to avoid the following:

We highly recommend silicone as a safe vibrator material. Stainless steel, glass, and lucite are also safe materials.

Cleaning

It is important to clean your device immediately after every use. This helps to prevent the growth of yeast or bacteria that could cause an infection the next time you use it. 

Each toy will come with cleaning instructions that may vary slightly. However, you should follow these general guidelines:

Hi, I'm Lindsay(NY)! Along with my partner Grayson(TX), we run Long Distance Lover. At first our LDR was a struggle, but overtime we learnt from the ups and the downs to create a strong bond that eventually lead to closing the distance! That's our goal with LDL, to help other long distance couples strengthen their relationships and finally be together.