Long Distance Vibrators: Top 11 Bluetooth & App Controlled Options in 2021

Have you been thinking about introducing long distance vibrators into your relationship? 

We think they are a great idea for LDR couples for several reasons:

• Intimacy is important: When you can’t be together in person, long distance vibrators can help bridge the gap. 
• Versatility: They come in a variety of shapes and sizes with different functions. Whether you prefer clitoral stimulation, G-spot stimulation, or both, there is an option to suit your needs. 
• Adventure: Some vibrators are wearable and are quiet enough to use in public. Spice things up by letting your partner surprise you as you go about your day. 
• Promote trust: Trust can be hard to build and maintain in a relationship – what better way to build trust than with a remote control vibrator?

What Is a long distance vibrator, and how does it work?

Originally known as remote control vibrators, these devices came with an actual remote. Now, long distance vibrators incorporate Bluetooth technology, allowing them to connect to smartphone apps. Through these apps, you or your partner can control vibration modes and intensity from anywhere in the world.

The Best Vibrators for Long Distance Relationships in 2020

Remote Control Rabbit Vibrators

Nora by Lovense

If you want a tried and true product, the Nora by Lovense was the first Bluetooth-compatible rabbit vibrator on the market. They have continued to refine Nora, which has now been updated six times, improving features like:

• Battery life & charging times
• Ergonomic design
• Quieter vibrating motors
• More vibration modes

We do like how many customizable vibration settings there are on the Nora. No matter what type of stimulation you like from a rabbit vibrator, Nora provides it.

OhMiBod Fuse: Powered by Kiiroo

The OhMiBod Fuse is a long distance vibrator that’s packed with features. 

• Dual-motor, dual-stimulation capabilities? Check
• Touch sensitive technology? Check
• LED light for visual stimulation? Check
• Low battery warning? Check

We love the versatility of the Fuse. Not only can you control it yourself or have it controlled by your partner, but you can also sync the toy with video, VR, or games.

Nova by We-Vibe

Some women don’t like rabbit-style vibrators because they can lose contact with the clitoris as you move in and out. A flexible clitoral stimulator sets the Nova by We-Vibe apart because the flexible arm allows it to maintain pressure. 

The shape of Nora looks intimidating at first, until you understand the function of that shape. You may think to aim the pointy end of the clitoral stimulator directly on your clitoris, but it’s actually the broad side of the arm.

Here’s a demonstration.

Remote Control Egg Vibrators

Lush 2 by Lovense

If you’re interested in egg vibrators, there are two reasons why the Lush 2 by Lovense should be on your radar.

1. It’s range of vibration intensity is four times wider than other options.
2. It is super quiet, only creating 45.5 dB at top speed.

For those who enjoy the thrill of a wearable vibrator, the Lush 2 is an excellent choice thanks to its accessible on/off button. That means you can wear it all day, then turn it on and let your partner know when you’re ready for some discreet fun. 

Lush 2 is also waterproof, making it usable in the bath or shower.

OhMiBod Esca 2: Powered by Kiiroo

The second-generation of the OhMiBod Esca 2 kept what worked well and improved what didn’t, creating an exceptional wearable vibrator.

One improved area is the reinforced tail. It generates a much stronger Bluetooth signal, so there’s less risk of disconnection from the app during use.

We also like that the Esca 2 has better battery life, which now lasts up to three hours on a single charge. The team at Kiiroo also included an LED light to add to the visual experience.

It’s worth noting that the LED light can be turned off if you’re in a situation where you need to be discreet!

Jive by We-Vibe

One aspect of the Jive by We-Vibe that sets it apart from other long distance vibrators is that is was designed in conjunction with doctors and sexual wellness experts.

Add in the fact that your partner can control it from anywhere in the world, and you have the recipe for discreet fun that’s always exciting and different.

If you like a wide range of variety with vibration settings then you’ll definitely enjoy this device. It has ten preset vibration modes and the We-Connect App allows you to create your own unique pulsations!

Remote Control G Spot Vibrators

Pearl 2 by Kiiroo

Sometimes, simple is better, and that’s the case with the Pearl 2 by Kiiroo. If you’ve ever looked at a sex toy and been intimidated by it’s unusual shape, the Pearl 2 might be what you’ve been searching for.

But don’t think the basic design makes it a basic device!

This sleek toy is not short on power or function. With touch-sensitive technology, the vibrations become more intense the deeper you insert the toy and lessen as you remove it, which can make for a mind-blowing experience.

While the Pearl 2 is known as a remote control g-spot vibrator, users have commented that it is an equally effective option for clitoral stimulation.

Osci 2 by Lovense

The combination of oscillating vibrations, an oval head and ergonomic design make the Osci 2 by Lovense one of the best G-spot vibrators out there.

Oscillating vibrations?! View the demonstration.

Here’s how Lovense describes this unique feature:

Instead of vibrating like other traditional toys, our toy has a patented oscillating feature that moves the vibrations in and out – pleasuring your G-Spot in ways you’ve never imagined.

Lovense, Osci 2

Add the fact that it connects seamlessly to the Lovense Remote App and you have yourself one of the most innovative bluetooth vibrators for long distance couples.

It’s also worth mentioning that the Osci 2 can last up to a staggering 5 hours on a single charge.

Remote Control Clit Vibrators

Cliona by Kiiroo

The Cliona by Kiiroo was created to be the most ergonomic and comfortable option for women of all body types. It was specifically designed to eliminate any wrist pain during use.

Users have mentioned that the shape makes it easier to try different angles to find the best position.

While Cliona was primarily designed for clitoral stimulation, the sleek shape makes it an insertable option too.

Being 4.5” long, it’s also small enough to carry with you and take almost anywhere.

Want to know more about the Onyx+ and TITAN? See our article on the best hands free masturbators for long distance control.

Sync by We-Vibe

All of the devices we’ve spoken about are great for long distance intimacy.

The Sync by We-Vibe is another great option that takes it a step further, also being designed for use while you’re physically together.

Let us explain 🙂

With the Sync, you get a device that provides both clitoral and G-spot stimulation. The unique ‘U’ shaped design helps it to stay in place, even as you change positions. The arm designed for G-spot stimulation is thin enough so that it can be used while having sex with your partner. So you can both enjoy a heightened experience when you get to be together!

Remote Control Bullet Vibrators

Ambi by Lovense

The team at Lovense gave the Ambi a unique user friendly design that can provide multiple sensations to different areas.

Being shaped like the head of a hammer gives the device the ability to use different parts to provide different levels of pressure and pleasure, including:

• Broad stimulation: Using the length on top
• Pinpoint stimulation: Using the lower head of the hammer
• Super pinpoint stimulation: Using the pointed end of the hammer

See the visual breakdown here.

Combining this with multiple vibration patterns and a motor that’s known to be four times as powerful as other options gives you one of the most versatile long distance vibrators available.

The Long Distance Vibrator We Recommend

Each of the long distance vibrators we have explored are great options for LDR couples to enhance those intimate moments.

But, the option we are proud to recommend is Nora from the team at Lovense.

Here’s a few reasons why…

Nora is Versatile

Being a remote control rabbit vibrator gives you many options when it comes to stimulation. Whether it’s clitoral or g-spot stimulation, Nora is designed to aid in both and even at the same time.

Connects With Other Lovense Devices

While Nora is a great option on it’s own. If your partner wants to join in on the fun, they can. Nora can connect to, control and be controlled by Lovense’s Max 2 (male stroker) or another Nora.

Having the ability to connect two Nora’s together (and even two Max 2’s) makes them LGBTQ+ friendly. We’re proud to support a company like Lovense that has an inclusive vision.

6th Generation

Lovense has been helping long distance couples share intimate moments for over 10 years. In that time they have continued to refine and improve their products. Nora has received multiple feature updates, creating one of the most immersive and user friendly options that’s currently available.

Lovense Remote App

Just like their physical devices, updates to the Lovense Remote App occur regularly. It makes it quick and easy to connecting devices to the app and to each other, while also providing a range of features to enhance the overall experience.

Adding in the fact that Nora is also one of the most affordable options makes it an amazing choice for your relationship. For more details on Nora’s features and capabilities, head on over to the official Lovense website.

Helpful Tips Before Buying a Long Distance Vibrator

Device Compatibility

Before buying any app controlled vibrators, make sure you can download the application to your phone or computer. While the Lovense App is compatible with Mac and Windows in addition to iOS and Android, Kiiroo and We-Vibe products will only work with Bluetooth-compatible iOS and Android mobile devices. 

Sizing Help

Is there anything worse than spending good money on a product, only to discover that it doesn’t fit? Before purchasing, use a tape measure to see what the measurements look like. Be sure to check the width (also called girth) and insertable length to make sure the toy will be comfortable for your body. 

Allergies

You would be amazed at how many cheap sex toys and lubricants contain common allergens and irritants.

Check the materials and ingredients of all sex toys and lubricants before making a purchase, and be sure to avoid the following:

• Rubber contains latex, which many people are allergic to. Rubber’s porous surface can harbor bacteria and cause an infection. Also, rubber tends to have a very un-romantic scent. 
• Phthalates are chemicals that make plastic flexible, but phthalate exposure has been linked to several health concerns. Avoid it whenever possible. 
• Jellies may contribute a realistic feel to some toys, but they contain phthalates. 
• PVC and vinyl are relatively cheap ingredients used to make sex toys softer. However, you may pay for that cheapness since they contain phthalates. 
• Dyes can leach out of cheap materials and cause skin reactions. 
• Scents in toys or lubricants may cause allergic reactions or irritation. 
• Glycols and glycerin are ingredients in some lubes that can cause thrush (a fungal infection) or irritation. 

We highly recommend silicone as a safe vibrator material. Stainless steel, glass, and lucite are also safe materials.

Cleaning

It is important to clean your device immediately after every use. This helps to prevent the growth of yeast or bacteria that could cause an infection the next time you use it. 

Each toy will come with cleaning instructions that may vary slightly. However, you should follow these general guidelines:

• Immediately after use, rinse it off and pat it dry.
• Use a damp cloth and gentle soap or a specified cleaner, based on the manufacturer’s directions.
• Store the vibrator in a silk bag or a box with toys made from the same materials.

Hi, I'm Lindsay(NY)! Along with my partner Grayson(TX), we run Long Distance Lover. At first our LDR was a struggle, but overtime we learnt from the ups and the downs to create a strong bond that eventually lead to closing the distance! That's our goal with LDL, to help other long distance couples strengthen their relationships and finally be together.

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