Does it feel like there aren't many things to do in a long distance relationship? Let us change your mind with genuine options for your next date night!
Does it feel like there aren't many things to do in a long distance relationship? Let us change your mind with genuine options for your next date night!
by Livius Besski |
Updated on July 31, 2022 
It’s easy to think there aren’t many things to do in a long distance relationship. But to be completely honest…
It’s far from the truth!
As long distance couples our interactions outside of talking can be limited and we tend to fall into a routine that may start to feel redundant.
Doing activities together, other than talking, is completely possible and a great way to connect with your partner on another level.
There are many ways to keep the conversation going, but here are our top LDR activities you can set up for your next date night!
Cooking together will require a bit of planning but it’s totally worth it!
This can be a lot of fun if you or your partner have a favorite recipe or cultural dish you want each other to try.
The bonus is you get to eat together afterwards!
Another cool option is to bake together. Not only will your place smell amazing, but you can also chat while everything is cooking.
Need inspiration? Check out this long distance couple that cooks together on a weekly basis. If they can do it, so can you!
We all have different tastes and interests. Watching movies together online is a great thing to do in long distance relationships for a couple of reasons.
If you’re unsure of what to watch, browse the web, read reviews, watch trailers and share which ones interest you. Or if you want to watch something relatable to your relationship, check out our article on LDR movies.
TIP: Use programs like Kast.gg (Web, desktop & mobile apps) and Netflix Party (Chrome browser extension) to watch movies in sync.
Who doesn’t love games? There are so many types that you’re bound to find something you can both enjoy.
Different games and websites we recommend to play together online include:
There are also many games you can play that don’t need any materials!
Sounds simple right? Well it is!
Don’t be afraid to share interesting things with your partner. Whether you collect certain items or even if it’s a recent purchase, it can be fun to understand what makes each other ‘tick’.
Take it even further and explore things like:
As the technology behind virtual reality and 3D mapping has become more affordable. We can now discover and explore places all over the world without leaving the house.
This is a perfect opportunity for long distance couples to take advantage of.
We really enjoy museums and historical exhibits because there is so many fascinating things to see and learn about.
Some worth checking out include:
Did you know: Studies have proven that creativity improves mental health and increases happiness.
So why not engage in creative activities together over video chat!
There are many tools available for freestyle drawing online. Some we recommend trying are:
There are many moving parts when it comes to planning a trip. Why not team up and plan your next visit together!
As the old saying goes:
Two heads are better than one.
Splitting tasks will not only speed up the process but you’ll likely look for different options and deals, giving you a lot more choice.
Sites we recommend to help your planning process:
Do you find yourselves just wanting to be in each others company? You may not want to talk but want to feel ‘close’.
Using this time for working or studying is a great option if you want to be in a calm and silent environment. There is also evidence from Stanford University researchers that working or studying together can boost motivation.
You can also bug each other for help, but not too much!
If you want to step it up a notch:
While it can be fun to take a quiz to find out what kind of bread your are… why not use this time to learn about your relationship?
Completing this together will create some interesting discussion points and ways to work on yourselves and your relationship.
Relationship quizzes we recommend:
Light some candles, play a little background music and put on a nice outfit because it’s time to get ready for a romantic dinner date.
This is a great option if you’ve taken the initiative to cook together (our first LDR activity in this article) as most of the hard work is out of the way!
But it can also be a great idea to order your favorite takeout to give it a restaurant feel.
TIP: If you are going to order takeout, use a delivery service like Uber Eats because you can both select the same delivery time.
First time using Uber Eats? Get a $5 discount on your order by using the code ‘eats-vhva4‘ at checkout.
First, let’s be clear, it’s important you both feel comfortable when it comes to getting intimate. Whether it is sexting, phone sex or being intimate online, make sure your partner is ok with the idea and always respect each other’s boundaries. This should be a fun and memorable experience for both for you.
Ready to take your relationship to the next level? Interactive couples toys are a great option.
Lovense are a company that specialises in adult devices for long distance couples. Their male (Max 2) and female (Nora) products connect to and control each other’s movements, creating an immersive experience.
What’s also awesome is that two male or two female devices can connect to each other!
If you’ve noticed recent video chats have become a little stale, it’s time to change things up!
Send this article to your partner and discuss what you’d both like to try.
Remember, you don’t have to do everything on this list. Pick one or two and see how it goes. From there you will likely find other things!
Routine and predictability are two of the worst enemies a long distance relationship can have.
Teaming up and doing stuff together can make for great conversations, during and after those activities.
When you feel like you don’t have things to talk about, take the initiative and propose something to do together!
Livius founded Long Distance Lover in 2012 to bring straightforward and actionable advice to couples looking to strengthen their long distance relationships. He now acts as an advisor to the LDL team.
