On 22 of August 2013 my girlfriend arrived to Denmark and we finally closed the distance. Since then I’ve received a lot of emails from guys asking me how did I convince my girlfriend to relocate. So now I’ve decided to share my “secrets” with you in this article.
The first thing to point out here is that you don’t have to CONVINCE her to relocate, it has to be a decision she makes on her own. You can however make it easy for her to make this decision.
Of course, the whole process will start with you two having various conversations about it, and discussing what it best for both you, and what is best for the relationship, working your way to the final decision of who is going to move, and then to the long awaited moment of relocation.
Below I am going to share with you a few important guidelines for you to keep in mind while doing “the negotiations”.
Like any human being faced with a big change, your girlfriend will have a lot of worries and insecurities about relocating.