Hands Free Masturbators: 4 Orgasmic Strokers For Long Distance Couples

by Grayson | Last Updated: July 8, 2020
hands free masturbators

When we usually think about adult toys, we picture products for women. Luckily, options for men do exist and are packed with technology.

Devices like automatic strokers and hands free masturbators are becoming increasingly popular. With many of them now having the capability to be controlled by other devices and even interact with VR content.

How Hands Free Masturbators Work

Each product works a little differently, but basically, these devices use vibrating motors along with a mechanical arm or contracting rings to create the stroking motion. The speed and intensity can be adjusted on the device, through a mobile application or even a partners connected toy. Making them perfect for long distance couples.

Don’t Forget the Health Benefits!

While pleasure might be the only thing on your mind when it comes to using hands free masturbators, there are also health benefits to consider.

It has been linked to reduced stress and better sleep as it releases the feel good chemical, dopamine, in your brain. There is also evidence showing that men who do it frequently are at reduced risk for prostate cancer.

Combining these benefits with the fact that you’re also creating intimate moments with your long distance partner makes them a smart purchase!

In this guide, we’re going to talk about the best automatic strokers available, so you can make an informed decision about which one is best for you.

The Best Automatic Strokers With Long Distance Control in 2020

Onyx+ by Kiiroo

Onyx+ by Kiiroo

If you like an up and down stroking motion that simulates sex, you’ll love Onyx+ by Kiiroo. It includes 10 contracting rings that produce up to 140 strokes per minute for an intense experience. All that power is quieter than you might expect with a quieter motor than previous models.

The team at Kiiroo have not only created a powerful device, but also one that looks good too. The soft-touch coating on the exterior of the device provides a comfortable grip. To make cleaning a breeze, the included silicone Real-Feel Sleeve is easy to remove and wash. It’s also 100% body-safe and non-porous.

For long distance couples, you can connect to other FeelTechnology-enabled devices from Kiiroo, including Pearl, Fuse, Esca 2, Cliona and even another Onyx+. Each device can control the other, creating an immersive and intimate experience. If you don’t have a second device to connect to you can use the FeelConnect App to control the vibration and contraction settings.

Onyx+ Settings

Vibration levels:

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High

Contraction levels:

  • Full stroke
  • Power up
  • Handjob
  • Storm

Onyx+ Specs

Length: 10.35”
Width: 3.5”
Insertable Length: 6.5”
Charge Time: 4 hours
Usage Time: 1 hour
Waterproof: No
Materials: Body safe silicone & ABS plastic

KEON by Kiiroo

KEON automatic masturbator by Kiiroo

KEON is the latest and greatest hands free masturbator from the innovative team at Kiiroo.

Generating up to 230 strokes per minute, this impressive device is the most powerful automatic stroker that is currently available with long distance control.

There are two main parts to the KEON. the housing for local controls, the motor and battery etc. The second is Kiiroo’s RealFeel stroker.

While the KEON has controls on the device, your partner can also use the FeelConnect App for long distance fun. You or your partner can adjust the intensity of the stroke speed and change the stroke length from broad to focusing on a specific area.

Like with the majority of Kiiroo devices, you have the ability to connect KEON to a compatible partner device. They include:

  • Pearl 2
  • Fuse
  • Cliona, and
  • Esca 2

Whichever Kiiroo product you pair with, increasing the length and speed of the in/out motion will control the stroke length and speed on the KEON. It’s also worth noting that it’s perfect for LGBTQ+ couples as you can pair two KEON’s together.

KEON Settings

Stroke speed:

  • 4 stroke speed settings

Stroke length:

  • 4 stroke length settings

KEON Specs

Length: 12.6”
Width: 6.6”
Charge Time: 4 hours
Usage Time: 2 hours
Waterproof: No
Materials: Body-safe silicone, PC ABS, PU Coating

Max 2 by Lovense

Max 2 by Lovense

In 2019, Lovense released the latest generation of the Max 2 with some impressive new features, including:

  • An adjustable air vent that allows you to control the level of suction.
  • 360-degree contraction technology for an immersive feel.
  • Improved sleeves with delivering multiple sensations.

Speaking of sleeves, multiple options are available for purchase. We love that Lovense really takes the consumer into consideration and knows that people like different feelings and sensations.

For those intimate moments with your long distance partner, the Max 2 connects seamlessly with their rabbit vibrator, Nora, or another Max 2.

When being used together, the speed and motion of one toy controls the speed and vibration intensity of the other. If you or your partner aren’t in the mood to participate, you can control the vibrations and contractions with the Lovense Remote App

Max 2 Settings

Vibration levels:

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Fireworks
  • Earthquake

Contraction levels:

  • Subtle
  • Mild
  • Deep

Max 2 Specs

Length: 9.5” Width: 3.33”
Insertable Length: 6.5”
Charge Time: 2 hours
Usage Time: 1.5 to 3.5 hours
Waterproof: No
Materials: Body safe silicone and ABS plastic

Titan by Kiiroo

Titan by Kiiroo

Do you like to control your own stroking speed? With Titan by Kiiroo, nine vibrating bullet motors controlled by six different vibration patterns elevate those intimate moments with your partner.

Similar to the Onyx+, Kiiroo hasn’t cut corners on the design. The Titan has a ribbed grip, helping to prevent your hands slipping, and three touch-sensitive pads to control the vibrations.

One thing we love about Kiiroo products is that they offer a wide variety of devices that connect to each other. Using Kiiroo’s FeelConnect App, the Titan can be controlled with a smartphone or another connected toy, such as the Pearl, Fuse, Esca, Cliona or another Titan.

Titan Settings

Vibration levels:

  • Targeted
  • Targeted power
  • Auto
  • Blow
  • Pulse
  • Endurance

Contraction levels:

  • Manual stroke only

Titan Specs

Length: 8.7”
Width: 3.43”
Insertable Length: 7.87”
Charge Time: 3 hours
Usage Time: 40 minutes
Waterproof: No
Materials: Body safe sleeve and ABS plastic case

Our Recommended Hands Free Masturbator

Our top pick is the Onyx+ by Kiiroo because it is the most versatile option currently available.

Onyx+ hands free masturbator by Kiiro

This third-generation product is a powerful device that allows for both automatic and manual stroking options.

For heterosexual couples, Onyx+ pairs with Kiiroo’s four female devices, so you’re sure to find the best device for each other’s needs.

Also, two Onyx+ devices can connect and control one another, and we’re proud to support companies that are LGBTQ+ inclusive!

For further details on how these devices connect together and a full feature list, visit Kiiroo’s official website.

Frequently Asked Questions About Hands Free Masturbators 

How Do I Find the Right Size Hands Free Masturbator?

Getting a refund on a sex toy that doesn’t fit is nearly impossible, so it’s important to use a measuring tape before making your purchase. A flexible measuring tape works best, especially to measure your girth (how big around your penis is). If you don’t have one, you can use a length of string or a shoelace – wrap it around, mark where it connects, then hold it up against a tape measure or ruler. You’ll want to pay close attention to the “insertable” measurements of the product descriptions; the total length of the device is less important than how big it is inside.  

How Do I Know if a Hands Free Masturbator Is Body Safe?

Since adult toys can be sold as “novelty items”, they aren’t regulated in the United States. That means they may include ingredients that could cause allergic reactions or other problems. All the products we recommend here use only body-safe materials. If you ever find yourself looking at other products, make sure the sleeve is made of pure non-porous silicone. Otherwise, it may include potentially toxic phthalates or latex, a common allergen

Do I Need to Use Lubricant with a Hands Free Masturbator?

Lubricant is crucial with these devices. Without it, you could rip the silicone of the inner sleeve, or, worse, irritate your skin! Always apply plenty of lubricant to yourself and the toy before you get going, and have some handy for additional applications if needed. 

What Type of Lubricant Should I Use with a Hands Free Masturbator?

Silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone toys, so you should only use water-based lubricant with any of the devices we’ve talked about here. You may need to reapply, so make sure you have plenty on hand. 

How Do I Clean a Hands Free Masturbator?

Always follow the cleaning directions when you buy a new product, as they’ll vary slightly from device to device. Generally, though, you will remove the soft inner sleeve and wash it with warm water and sex toy cleaner. Make sure the inner sleeve is completely dry before putting it back into the base of the device; otherwise, you could cause a malfunction by introducing moisture to the system.

Grayson(TX) here! My partner Lindsay(NY) and I want to thank you for checking out Long Distance Lover. While I prefer to to stay behind the scenes and tinker with the site, you'll find me writing an article from time to time on cool products and advice for men in LDRs.