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Developing a sexual and intimate connection when you aren’t together isn’t easy. However, it’s crucial to put in the effort if you want to build upon your relationship, no matter how far apart you are.
Luckily, there is modern technology and other products that can help.
We know it can be a daunting experience when it comes to shopping for intimate gifts. That’s why we’ve researched the best sex gifts for long distance relationships, so you don’t have to!
The Best Sex Gifts For Long Distance Relationships in 2021
Max 2 & Nora: Couples Sex Toys by Lovense
When you can’t be with each other in person, Max 2 & Nora by Lovense are the next best thing. These interactive sex toys connect via Bluetooth and an app.
The toys communicate with each other using haptic feedback. This means that the faster the Max 2 strokes up and down, the faster the head of Nora, the rabbit-style vibrator, rotates. Also, the faster you move Nora, the faster Max 2 expands and contracts.
With connected toys like Max 2 & Nora, it’s less like you’re each using the toys on yourselves and more like you’re using them on each other.
These devices can also be controlled through the Lovense Remote app, if only one of you feels like actively participating in the fun while the other can take control!
Onyx+ & Pearl 2: Connected Toys by Kiiroo
For women who don’t like rabbit-style vibrators, the Onyx+ & Pearl 2 Couples Set by Kiiroo may be the long distance sex toys you’ve been looking for.
For a more intimate and interactive experience, you can control the speed and intensity of your partner’s toy with your own when you connect them via Kiiroo’s FeelConnect app.
If you and your partner are in vastly different time zones and find it hard to connect at the same time, you can also use the FeelConnect app to connect your toy to virtual content.
Want more? See our article where we compare the best long distance sex toys for couples in 2021.
Lush 2: App Controlled Vibrator by Lovense
Interested in a long-lasting wearable, app-controlled vibrator? One charge gives you up to 3 hours of fun with the Lush 2 by Lovense.
When you have the chance to be together in person, your partner can control the vibrator with a remote. When you’re apart, they can control it from anywhere in the world through the Lovense Remote app.
For those who are interested in discreet fun, the Lush 2 has an easy to access on/off button, so it can be worn all day and turned on at any time.
If you like a wide range of vibration levels, you’ll love that the motor is one of the most powerful you’ll find in a wearable vibrator.
OhMiBod Esca 2 Powered by Kiiroo
One thing that sets the OhMyBod Esca 2 Powered by Kiiroo apart is the LED light on the end of the device that’s outside of your body. You can set up the light to sync with the vibrations, which provides added feedback for your partner when you can see each other. For more discreet play, the light can also be turned off.
Weighing only 1.9 ounces, It has a powerful motor and connects through Bluetooth to either the OhMiBod® Remote App or the FeelConnect App.
Charging only takes 90 minutes and will provide up to three hours of fun.
Jive: Wearable Vibrator by We-Vibe
For those who prefer playing in the bath or having discreet fun out in public, the Jive by We-Vibe’s whisper quiet motor and waterproof casing makes it the perfect wearable option.
Using the We-Connect app, you can take control of the 10+ vibration modes, or if you’re feeling creative, you can make your own unique vibrations by customizing the intensity and frequency!
Where most products will only come with a manual and charging cable, the team at We-Vibe have gone one step further and included a cute silk storage pouch and lubricant pack.
If you’ve ever had a toy die in the middle of the fun, you’ll be thrilled to know that the Jive has a low-battery warning.
Hush: Remote Control Butt Plug by Lovense
Did you know that the Hush by Lovense was the world’s first teledildonic butt plug? If you like strong vibrations, it’s also one of the most powerful.
Using the Lovense Remote app, your partner can control the vibrations of your device, even when you’re miles apart.
The team at Lovense have put a lot of R&D time into making the Hush a great remote control butt plug. Two notable features we like are the spirals on the neck that have been engineered to trap lubricant and the ergonomic base, which keeps it comfortably in place and makes it easy to remove.
If you’re new to these types of devices, you will be happy to know the Hush comes in two different sizes, so you’ll be sure to find one that’s most suitable.
Ditto by We-Vibe
If you want to use the Ditto by yourself (or when your partner is in town), it includes a handy remote. Otherwise, your partner can use the We-Connect app to choose from 10 vibration styles and varying strengths to control your device.
We like that the Ditto comes in either blue or purple and includes a small sample of lube, making it ready to use straight out of the box.
Want a warning when the fun is nearly done? No problem! We-Vibe has included a low-power alert.
Not sure which option is for you? Check out our in depth Hush vs Ditto comparison.
Edge by Lovense
Are you worried that a prostate massager just won’t hit where you need it to? An adjustable massager with two motors like the Edge by Lovense will hit the right spot for most men.
Your partner can control your device anywhere from across the room to across the globe with the Lovense Remote app.
TIP: For a truly unique experience, use the app to sync the Edge with your favorite music.
If you like to play discreetly outside the home, the Edge has been designed to be worn comfortably for long periods. It’s also is super quiet! Just try to keep a straight face while your partner buzzes you during a meeting 😀
Vector by We-Vibe
Did you know that the Vector by We-Vibe was designed in collaboration with prostate experts to provide you with the best (and safest) prostate pleasure possible?
Together they created the ultimate massager with dual motors, adjustable head, and flexible base to target both your prostate and your perineum for the ultimate orgasm.
We love that a 90 minute charge provides up to 2 hours of play time. Also, like other We-Vibe products, the Vector comes with a silk storage bag and a sample of lube.
Looking for a more detailed review? We put the Edge against the Vector to find the best remote control prostate massager of 2021.
Sex Coupons for Him & Her by Matchbox
You print them yourself, so you can use fancy paper if you want, or keep it simple with plain paper. Either way, you get 8 blank cards and 21 coupons for things like “A quickie,” “A sexual act of your choice,” and “A sexy striptease.”
We all know that it can be a little awkward when you haven’t seen each other for a while. These sex coupons are a great way to create a fun and relaxed atmosphere.
Travel Sex Gift Kit by Maude
Make sure you’re prepared for your next trip to see your partner with this Travel Sex Kit by Maude. It includes:
- Travel-sized, all-natural lubricant (only 2 ounces, so it’s OK for carry-on luggage)
- 5 ultra-thin lubricated condoms in easy-open packaging
- 10 compressed, compostable wipes that can be reused up to twice
It’s also carry-on luggage friendly!
Sexy Truth or Dare Pick-A-Stick Game
Get to know each other better with the fun and intimate Sexy Truth or Dare Pick-A-Stick Game.
There are 100 racy seductions printed on double-sided sticks. On one is is a truth that may make you blush and on the other side is a sexy dare.
You can either play over video chat when apart or bring them with you for the next time you visit.
Clone-A-Willy & Clone-A-Pussy
Just because long distance couples aren’t together all the time doesn’t mean they can’t have a “piece” of each other with them.
For some, it will be a shirt to sleep in; for others, it might be something more intimate.
Clone-A-Willy is fully functional and even includes a bullet vibrator. You can pick from realistic skin tones or fun colors like green or purple. Some even glow in the dark!
The previous Clone-A-Pussy was visually appealing, but wasn’t a working model. Now they include a functioning pleasure sleeve for a fully immersive experience.
Oh! Talk Dirty Card Game by Lovehoney
Whether you’re getting to know each other intimately or wanting to spice things up when together. Lovehoney’s Oh! Talk Dirty Card Game can help you connect in fun new ways.
This deck has 52 cards of varying “values” and two joker cards that you can fill in however you like.
We like that the set comes with 3 different game suggestions. You can also create your own game or play a unique game of poker.
Oh! Kinky Confessions Card Game by Lovehoney
With its “Would you rather…?” question cards, the Oh! Kinky Confessions Card Game can spice up an evening or help you get to know each other better while apart.
Just shuffle the cards and pick them at random to ask each other. You can either discuss or act out the answers.
Some of the “Would you rather” questions include:
- Sex in the bath or shower?
- Spank or be spanked?
- Eat chocolate sauce or ice cream off your partner’s body?
Our Favorite 2021 Sex Gifts For Long Distance Relationships
Our top pick for the hottest sex gifts for long distance relationships is the Lovense line of sex toys.
The team at Lovense has been testing and improving their products for years and helping long distance couples to connect in unique new ways.
We are big fans of their flagship devices, Max 2 & Nora, because they have the ability to connect and control each other. It’s also possible to connect two Max 2’s or two Nora’s together, which is a great step forward for long distance couples in the LGBTQ+ community!
When you can’t be together in person, being able to control your partner’s toy and pleasure from anywhere in the world, has to be the next best thing.
For more details on the positive impact the Lovense team is having on long distance couples and their line of products, visit their official website Lovense.com.
Hi, I'm Lindsay(NY)! Along with my partner Grayson(TX), we run Long Distance Lover. At first our LDR was a struggle, but overtime we learnt from the ups and the downs to create a strong bond that eventually lead to closing the distance! That's our goal with LDL, to help other long distance couples strengthen their relationships and finally be together.
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